Have you ever given a thought what makes you scatter down and breaks your tears flow and hurt you to the core? Pain is something we came into with, it is the most difficult misfortune we all need to fight to reach our goal. Pain can make you stick around of one thing or it can make you strong enough to fight your battle all alone. It can break you or mend you. Choose your terms wisely, beyond your comfort zone. It creates emotional problems and makes you feel more worst at the moment. It is something we run away from, but in actuality, we should face our pain then only one can have a solution and can come out of it to become happy.
Pain is a challenge to test our strength and to make us strong to be grateful for what we have. Have you ever sat all alone and given a thought to what exactly the pain is? What is the thing which hurts us? We all think we are incomplete because we long for many more things. If we have one we need other. We are never fully happy with whatever we have. Take a look all around you in a broader way. Do you find everyone happy or at peace. NO, because all of us are running. We run from ourselves.
Imagine yourself one day without food or of something which you are really craving for and you do not get it. We become sad and depressed. The human being thinks money can buy you everything. They believe they can buy victories from money too. The one who has money is happy and content. But this concept is totally vague. It has no meanings. We have come alone and will go alone. Nothing that money buys we all will take with us. It is love that binds us all together and will be engraved in each of our heart forever. If you know the true meaning of love, you will overcome pain in your life.
Love is everything. It is the answer to all your questions. It is medicine for your wounds. Love is the solution to your unhappiness. Your life is stable and content with the presence of love in it. Anything and everything starts and ends with love. The pain you bear and go through is because of some part of love you inherit inside you. A child breathes love when he or she first comes to the world. It is the love where a child just looks for his mom when he first opens his eyes. The feeling he awaits is the warmth of his mom. Love can cure you and pure you in every way.
Pain can be physical or mental. Stress due to some factors can be a reason for your emotional disbalance. Physical pain is caused because of some injury. But mental pain occurs mostly because of your higher expectation from the people around you or from your own life. We our self creates pain for us. No one can be accused of the pain or suffering we go through.
It is the ego that hurts and stings. Face this challenge of pain and keep your heart open to solve them. Running is not a solution to anything, accepting the reality is.
Few ways to Understand your pain and heal them.
Understand the Real Problem
The mind plays the game with us. Do not bend on to a situation that is known and comfortable to you.
Be grateful for the good times you shared. It will be an amazing help to the matters of the heart.
Surround yourself with Loving Friends and Family
It is very necessary to keep your heart open. Seek the support of your true friends and family on your worst days. Spend your time as much as you can with them. Do not stay alone.
Take Responsibility for your solutions
Bring love to self and never judge or compare yourself with others. No matter what the situation is, follow is instinct and be responsible for your decision you take.
Watch The Mind
Your mind will navigate you to a lot of things which at times can be wrong. Watch what your mind says and then let love and heart play its role.
Choose Love First
To suffer in love takes you to a higher level of consciousness. It is the solution to every problem of your life.
“The moment when you actually feel the pain in your chest is the moment when you understand the actual meaning of love in your life.”
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